Good job! Rule #18 is so on point, as is your solution. But we are taught to do, rather than say, from birth. Here’s a psychological experiment that helps explain it: https://medium.com/@lonshapiro/if-men-are-so-good-at-fixing-things-why-do-they-keep-breaking-women-s-hearts-f845fd765d7#.p82nlpv9n