“i know that ‘aptitude and inclination’ can change once we become enlightened”

Totally agree. That’s why I’m so fascinated by Dr. Tannen’s work. Not only should we learn to understand, accept and even celebrate the way the other sex acts and communicates, we need to be able to adopt their perspective and strategies ourselves. The difference in the natures of men and women in Shambaugh’s post reflects the things Tannen talks about. You see that in “If men are so good at fixing things… Part 2”

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