I think it’s really important for people (especially women) to understand that some men have incredible depth of feeling, still waters running deep and all that.
According to Brigg Meyer personality types, 64% of the writers polled belonged to the “IN” groups. According to the test, the INTJ, INTP, INFJ and INFP groups make up only 10% of the general population. I think that may help explain why there is a lot less bad behavior online.
We’re all a bunch of lonely losers or wounded weirdos in the eyes of most of the world, so people are a little more thoughtful and compassionate about the effect we have on others.