I think people need to ask themselves another question in this situation. If your partner cheats on you, but doesn't demand a divorce and still wants to have sex with you, what do you do?

Is an open marriage so bad if you remain whole financially and still get some loving?

Is that situation really worse than getting divorced, suffering financially, being unable to find a new partner AND rejecting good sex because the betrayal hurt so bad in the short term?

Years ago, a friend of mine had a similar situation that I will write about.

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