Nice story, Sherry.
Believe it or not, I have tested both INFP and INTP, so I totally identified with a lot of your story.
Late, as charged.
Considering I’ve been a coach/quasi sports psychologist, I can relate to the “Feeling” part. But I can only do that after I get to know someone.
Introducing myself cold and getting to know strangers is really difficult.
I would feel good if I helped someone, but I wouldn’t feel worse for it.
Finally, I would eat the melon and not think twice about it. And I would probably commit a terrible faux pas in asking if there wasn’t something besides meatloaf!