Psychologists will say that everyone has both narcissistic and neurotic tendencies.

My guess is to divide the population in thirds:

One third says “I’m unhappy because the people around me are not giving me what I want.”

One third says “The people around me are unhappy because I’m not able to give them what they want.”

The final third do a little of both

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